I just spent an hour typing an ultra long post with updates on all we've done in September, a scary long list. There were pictures, clever anecdotes, the works.
My husband's response? "Can't you save as you go?"
Nice. Husbands, always looking for the answers. Love em for it, but man!
So here is a poem instead.
A Poem for Emily
Small fact and fingers and farthest one from me,
a hand's width and two generations away,
in this still present I am fifty-three.
You are not yet a full day.
When I am sixty-three, when you are ten,
and you are neither closer nor as far,
your arms will fill with what you know by then,
the arithmetic and love we do and are.
When I by blood and luck am eighty-six
and you are someplace else and thirty-three
believing in sex and god and politics
with children who look not at all like me,
sometime I know you will have read them this
so they will know I love them and say so
and love their mother. Child, whatever is
is always or never was. Long ago,
a day I watched awhile beside your bed,
I wrote this down, a thing that might be kept
awhile, to tell you what I would have said
when you were who knows what and I was dead
which is I stood and loved you while you slept.
Miller Williams was born in 1930 in Hoxie Arkansas. He is the father of singer Lucinda Williams. He read his poem "History and Hope" at the inauguration of Bill Clinton in 1997. He taught biology.